California OnlyFans Incident: Mother Faces Murder Charges After BDSM Session Goes Wrong

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Hyun Shin
Updated 04:35 AM, March 19, 2025

Overview of the OnlyFans Related Incident

In a shocking and tragic case out of California, Michaela Brashaye Rylaarsdam, a 31-year-old mother and adult entertainer known as Asshley SinCal on OnlyFans, faces second-degree murder charges. The charges stem from the death of 55-year-old Michael Dale during a BDSM session intended for content on her OnlyFans page. The incident, which occurred two years ago, has only recently been brought to public attention following an in-depth police investigation.

Details of the Fatal Session

Reports indicate that the session involved Rylaarsdam wrapping Dale in plastic and restricting his breathing using a plastic bag and Saran wrap. This session was reportedly part of a response to an online advertisement related to Rylaarsdam’s escort services. Video evidence and images retrieved from Rylaarsdam's phone reveal the harrowing final moments of Dale, visibly in distress and unable to free himself due to being bound.

Legal Arguments and Court Proceedings

The prosecution, led by Deputy District Attorney David Jarman, argues that while the session was consensual up to a point, Dale did not consent to the life-threatening methods used. On the defense side, attorney Dan Cohen claims the actions, though reckless, were not intended to kill, emphasizing the consensual nature of the overall encounter and Rylaarsdam’s attempt to administer CPR before alerting authorities. Notwithstanding her not guilty plea and cooperation post-incident, Rylaarsdam is currently held without bail.

The Repercussions and Broader Implications

The case has cast a spotlight not only on Rylaarsdam's professional activities but also her personal life, notably her role as a suburban mother juxtaposed against her adult entertainment persona. This case raises significant questions about the boundaries of consent and the responsibilities of those who engage in and produce adult-themed content, especially on platforms like OnlyFans.

Impact on OnlyFans and Content Creators

As the trial progresses, the incident continues to stir debates surrounding the safety protocols and regulatory measures needed in the production of content for adult entertainment platforms such as OnlyFans. This case serves as a crucial example of how activities, consensual or not, can escalate to unforeseen consequences, prompting a reevaluation of practices by content creators on similar platforms.

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Hyun Shin is a Boston-based reporter for RhyteIt, specializing in personal empowerment strategies for adult content creators. Through insightful articles and resources, Shin helps creators develop confidence, resilience, and self-advocacy skills to thrive on platforms like OnlyFans and Fansly. Shin’s work supports creators in building authentic, empowered personal brands and navigating the challenges unique to the adult content industry.